What a mentor is — and is not
A mentor helps you think. They share what they have learned, challenge your assumptions and point you to resources. They are not a salesperson, and they should never make support conditional on a purchase or a decision.
Where to look
Free and independent options include government-signposted mentoring schemes, local business networks, industry bodies and experienced people in your own network. If you are exploring a specific business opportunity, the person introducing it may mentor you too — which is all the more reason to also have someone independent.
Agree boundaries early
Be clear about how often you will talk, what you want help with, and that you will make your own decisions. A good mentor is comfortable telling you when something may not suit you.
Questions to ask a potential mentor
- What have you learned the hard way?
- Do you benefit in any way if I make a particular decision?
- How often are you realistically available?
- Will you tell me if you think something is not right for me?
- Who else would you suggest I speak to?
Further reading
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Written by Kevin Iveson as general information, not financial, legal, benefits or employment advice.
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